In today’s society online dating is gaining popularity and more people are giving it a try. The positive stories and outcomes have been outweighing the negatives and friends probably encourage others to jump on the trend and try their luck.
With all of the capabilities to set your profiles up a certain way and display your preferences in categories such as interests and physical looks, many find it easy to find matches. The next step in some of these situations might be towards actually meeting in person and seeing how things unfold.
On the opposite spectrum, some individuals could be a little less lucky and have an experience that is not worth bragging on. Some of the things that could take place may be “cat-fishing” where a person is pretending to be someone else. This could include using photos of another person and/or changing the sound of their voice if phone conversations are held.
Another discouraging event that could occur might be not receiving any notifications about matching with someone.
An article describes that 60% of female users ages 18 to 34 said someone on a dating site sent direct messages that they did not ask for. This can make them uncomfortable to the point where they are frustrated or even feel like they should completely delete the applications.
Antorres Simon, sophomore at Missouri State University believes that it is okay to give online dating a try, but not get your hopes up too high.
“I often times match with girls and even if we do not go on an actual date, it is nice getting to know them,” Simon says. These could be potential friendships if the relationship aspect does not go as planned.
Simon also elaborated by saying that “when I look at profiles, I know that some may actually be worth pursuing, while others might easily be a hard pass at first glance.” He tries to stay open minded because after all, the online setting is still relatively new to some individuals just joining.
The survey also explained how those with a high school education or less are not as likely as college graduates and those with some college experience to say they have online dated. Age difference could play a factor because in high school it may be easier to just confront the person face-to-face.
Joshua Rivers, sophomore at Parkland Community College feels like “technology continues to advance and make a mark on us. It is almost like we have to audition online and if we earn the part we get to meet in person.”
He essentially feels like it is almost less personable because you can say anything behind a phone screen, but in reality, when you actually meet you may get a different impression from them. The safety of online dating runs across the minds of those who do and who do not engage in the websites. The survey states that “Americans who have never used a dating site or app are particularly skeptical about the safety of online dating.” These individuals would most likely stick to a more traditional way of meeting potential relationship partners.